The 'silver lining' in life refers to the good that comes out of every bad situation. This can be a really hard concept to grasp. When life has you really down..bad things are just happening one after the other, and it gets down right hard to keep up with. Sometimes we just really want to give up. We get in 'over our heads', and there feels like there is no way out. In today's post, I want to go over 'silver lining'. I want to talk about how good comes out of every bad situation - how everything happens for a reason - and even though it can be hard to see it at the time, there is always that good, always that 'silver lining'.
So as you know, all of us go through shit in life. That is just how it is. We get knocked down, and when it doesn't seem like it can get any worse, it does. A lot of this has to do with the law of attraction. Some of us are just 'energy projectors' so to speak. One thing goes wrong, we focus on that, then before we know it, another thing goes wrong. Now we have two bad things to focus on. Then another thing goes wrong. "Damn it!" - that's what I always say. That is putting it nicely.
Bad things can't always be foreseen. Some things just go wrong on their own. Impulsive. Last minute. Always inconvenient - and usually a spiral of events.
I had a client recently who was going through horrible things, and it didn't ever seem to stop. His name is Tony, and he was a home owner. He has a husband, three dogs and a great life style. His family had a great income, he owned not only his home, but two vehicles and everything inside of his home. He worked hard for it. He recently in the last six months finally got to quit his job as a CNA. He was abused at work in every single way.
Suaminya telah memperoleh pekerjaan berpendapatan tinggi dan semuanya nampak berjalan lancar. Mereka akhirnya dapat membina semua yang mereka hilang sebelumnya - bukan hanya rumah yang mereka tinggali, tetapi bekalan makanan, bekalan air, bekalan kecemasan yang hebat ... semuanya. Semua berjalan lancar. Kemudian musim sejuk melanda. Talian air di rumah mereka membeku. Kumbahan mereka membeku. Mereka salji masuk ... kumbahan kini tersandung ke dalam tab mandi mereka. Ia menakutkan. Seluruh rumah berbau wangi, tidak ada tukang paip yang ingin datang bekerja di rumah mereka.
This was a bad situation - and it seemed to only be getting worse. There really seemed to be no good in the situation at all. Come to find out - it was just frozen pipes - that is true. Yet, if the pipes had not frozen, it wouldn't have opened the bigger issue that there was a main pipe plug deep under ground, and they would have continued to be charged hundreds of extra dollars per month if this had not happened. So yes, this was unfortunate, and a huge inconvenience - however if this had not happened, they would have never found out the bigger issue - and would have always been charged much more. Good came from the bad.
Contoh lain dari lapisan perak adalah rakan baik saya - saya tidak pernah bertemu dengannya secara peribadi, tetapi telah membacanya sejak 2009, hampir setiap hari. Namanya Samantha, dan dia telah memberi saya kebenaran untuk berkongsi cerita ini kepada anda.
She has always been healthy, intuitive, passionate, adventurous - really open minded and always diving into the deeper energies in life. She has three healthy children who are incredibly smart. Her husband is a NASA engineer. Very secure people. One day she got sick. She didn't eat anything wrong - but she couldn't stop vomiting. She got so weak she couldn't leave the bed, and doctors couldn't find anything wrong. Blood tests, every test came back clean.
She wanted to give up - there was nothing she could do. She couldn't eat - couldn't sleep - constant pain - there was no good to this situation. She was failing. Doctors gave up. It didn't make sense - and she had come to me as a last resort.
The first thing I saw was the doctors must have been out of their minds. They told her to give up - and I couldn't believe she told me this. I saw two lives inside of her. She didn't trust me - went to the doctors again - blood tests said this was impossible. Ultrasounds picked nothing up. This was wrong, and I even got a bad rating. This bothered me, not because of the rating, but because her life was in danger.
Dia kembali kepada saya beberapa minggu kemudian dan memberitahu saya bahawa itu adalah kehamilan tuba - dua kali ganda - dan ia tepat pada waktunya. Dia mempunyai dua anak perempuan yang cantik sekarang yang akan bertukar tiga bulan minggu depan. Benar-benar istimewa. Ini adalah lapisan perak.
Lapisan perak boleh menjadi apa sahaja. Dari kehilangan pekerjaan anda, hanya untuk mengetahui bahawa yang lebih baik telah melindungi dirinya sendiri. Kehilangan nenek, yang menghancurkan hati anda. Hanya untuk mengetahui bahawa anda hamil dua bulan ... itu adalah seorang gadis. Ini istimewa. Saya boleh terus menerus - ini semua merangkumi lapisan perak. Itu nyata - itu adalah kebaikan yang keluar dari setiap yang buruk. Ya, yang buruk benar-benar dapat merosakkan kita. Ini dapat membuat kita merasa tidak ada jalan keluar. Itu adalah perkara biasa untuk dirasakan - kerana kita semua merasa seperti itu. Ini adalah ketika anda mengambil langkah mundur dan memberikan sedikit masa dan ruang. Terdapat benar-benar baik dari setiap keadaan buruk - anda tidak hanya harus mempunyai kesabaran, tetapi minda terbuka untuk melihatnya.
Don't dwell on the bad things. This will literally get you nowhere. I know this from personal experience. Yet I have had the open mind to sit back and watch. I have had my share of bad experiences. Times that really try to knock me down, they happen a lot. But I sit back, let it happen. Change the things I can change - and realize the things I have no control over - and I don't let them have control over me. Good comes from bad - be willing to open your eyes to this silver lining.
Gunakan istilah lapisan perak when you want to emphasize the hopeful side of a situation that might seem gloomy on the surface. The common expression "every cloud has a lapisan perak" means that even the worst events or situations have some positive aspect. Keep an open mind - the universe never stops believing in you - so never stop believing in it.
Kongsi artikel ini dengan rakan dan keluarga anda. Bawa rasa harapan itu ke dalam hidup mereka - dan kongsi pengalaman anda dengan lapisan perak di bahagian bawah.