Masa Kasar: Bagaimana untuk terus kuat



We all go through rough times. It is just a part of life. Sometimes it can seem impossible to keep going. When one thing goes wrong, another thing seems to go wrong, and before you know it - you are in over your head and your heart tells you not to give up, but everything else is saying 'I'm done'. There is a breaking point in all of us - and in this post I want to talk about how we can get through these rough times in one piece.


Saya ingin memberi anda pengalaman yang baru saya lalui - seperti yang akhirnya berakhir hari ini. Minggu lalu pada hari Sabtu, suhu di bawah sifar berada di mana saya tinggal, dan semua paip air membeku di seluruh rumah saya. Suami saya harus pergi ke kedai untuk membeli air agar kami dapat menyiram tanaman kami (saya mempunyai banyak), tiga anjing dan kami sendiri. Ia kekal seperti ini selama 5 hari. Tidak ada air sama sekali. Akhirnya, ia menjadi cukup panas dan paip air membeku, namun ini menyebabkan masalah lain. Sekarang saluran pembetung telah dibekukan, jadi semua air dan sisa menjadi sandaran di dalam rumah kami. Semua tab mandi sekarang penuh dengan kumbahan, semua tandas penuh - dan itu menakutkan. Ini berterusan selama tiga hari.


My husband and I called over a dozen plumbers and nobody wanted to come help. So I tried to fix this myself. I got up under the house, banged some things around hoping to break whatever ice was there - didn't work. So I came back inside, went into one of the bathrooms, and removed the whole toilet in hope that I would have more of a direct access to the main sewage line - to unblock it. Nope - this led to all the backup in all the tubs coming up through that hole, flooding the entire bathroom. Keep in mind, I am sitting on the floor trying to fix the problem. This is literally the nastiest experience of my life. I was gagging, crying - I felt defeated. I am not a plumber - I had no idea what I was doing, and now I couldn't get the toilet back on the hole to plug it.


Seterusnya, keseluruhan tandas pecah - yang membawa kepada masalah lain. Tidak ada yang mahu datang membantu - dan saya merosakkan. Ini sudah berlangsung seminggu pada ketika ini. Saya bersedia untuk mengemas barang-barang saya, membawa suami dan anjing ke hotel, dan tinggal sehingga selesai. Sangat sukar untuk melihat alasan untuk terus kuat, dan saya sudah cukup. Akhirnya entah dari mana, telefon berdering - dan itu adalah tukang paip. Dia rela datang jauh-jauh ke rumah saya, pada hari Sabtu, dan menyelesaikan masalahnya. Ternyata - semua paip perlu dikeluarkan dan diganti. Ia mahal, namun untuk mengetahui, jika ini tidak berlaku, ia akan menjadi sepuluh kali lebih mahal dan hampir mustahil untuk diperbaiki. Saya dengan senang hati mengatakan bahawa semuanya sudah diperbaiki, kekacauan dibersihkan - dan lebih baik daripada yang baru.



The reason I wanted to tell you about this personal experience I went through was to let you know that literally everything happens for a reason, and this is something we need to keep in mind when going through these rough times. I know how hard it can be to keep pushing forward. It gets unbearable at times. Yet - know that this bad phase or situation you are going through does have a purpose, and even if we can't see one at the moment, or while it is happening - keep strong. Keep positive, because when it is over, something will happen and then a light will go off in your mind: "Oh, this is why this happened".


I call it the 'Ah ha!' moment. Suddenly what you were going through makes sense, because not only can you now be proud that you got through it and it is over, but you can also learn from it. I have always had issues being patient. I mean, when the UPS driver is expected, I am waiting at the window until he comes. That is just how I am. Getting through this situation was impossible for me. I had my fill, I couldn't take it anymore. Yet something inside of me kept telling me to be strong. I have been through many rough times in my life, and the one thing that is always the same, is a better situation arises out of that darkness. I know everything happens for a reason.


The motivation and inspiration you can gain from my experience, is that we all go through hard times. It doesn't matter who you are. A lot of people think that because I am a gifted psychic, that I should know when something like what I went through is going to happen, and I should already be prepared. What I would tell these people, is I am not an all-knowing God. I am human too. Yes - I usually do foresee bad things in my life - but like anybody else, they do sneak up on me. It is usually a spiral of events - one thing leads to another and before I know it, everything is out of balance. My husband is a wonderful man and he helps me through these rough times.


Perkara utama: anda boleh melalui masa-masa sukar ini. Anda kuat - anda dilahirkan kuat. Anda telah melalui banyak perkara - dan anda masih meneruskannya. Anda membaca ini sekarang mengetahui bahawa saya bercakap terus dengan anda. Yang buruk membawa kepada yang baik. Masa yang sukar membawa masa yang menakjubkan. Satu perkara buruk berlaku, dua perkara baik akan berlaku. Ia menjadi lebih baik. Selalu ada pelajaran yang harus dipelajari - seperti yang saya katakan, saya sabar dan kuat. Oleh itu, perhatikan keadaan anda dari luar kotak. Ketahui yang baik betul-betul di sudut jalan, dan teruskan mendorong sedikit lebih lama. Anda boleh melakukan ini!


Kongsi catatan ini dengan rakan dan keluarga anda. Adakah anda mempunyai pengalaman di mana yang buruk membawa kepada yang baik? Beritahu saya dalam komen!

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